My So Called Organized Life


Have you ever had one of those moments when you wished you would have done something but it was WAY after the fact?  Being A-type you would think that I would think of everything, but sadly, this is not true.

I wish I would have taken (good) pictures before I started on my decluttering/minimalistic kick.  It would have been nice to have a record of just how far we (yes, I mean we, well except for our 4-month old, but even my husband participated for his part) have come.

My live more with less journey started about 3 years ago when we downsized from a 3,000 square foot house to a 2,300 square foot house and finally to our teeny tiny 1,700 square foot fully developed house!!!  With 3 kids … seriously!

I have always been an organized person, I hate clutter and I hate a mess, which is funny since I have 3 kids and my husband is a clutter bug, a serious clutter bug.  As in “but I might need it” type of clutter bug.  Drop clothes where he takes them off even though he walks past the closet where the hamper is to get to the bathroom type of clutter bug.  Get the idea???  Trying to wrap his head around this less is more philosophy has definitely been difficult, but he has come around and begun the process of letting go a little bit at a time in his own way.

The girls have been fantastic at this.  They have excelled really.  Once I explained to them that the toys and clothes they no longer used or fit into were going to other kids that aren’t able to have the same things they do, they filled up a box and a garbage bag all on their own.  Ahhhhhh, girls after my own heart!

My latest mission of more a minimalist came this spring when I decided to do a complete home inventory.  Have you ever tried that?  It’s a completely overwhelming task.  Room by room, item by item, every single thing written down, catalogued, and photo taken.  It’s incredible the things you have that you don’t think about, need or use taking up space that could otherwise be used.

I started thinking to myself just how ridiculous it was that we had so much stuff in such a small space.  If we wanted to pack up our lives, maybe put some stuff in storage and live out of an RV for a year or more why did we need all of this stuff?  And that is just what it was – STUFF.  Did it really mean anything to us or did we just feel guilty getting rid of it because we had paid money for it or it was given to us as a gift?  By in large, it was the guilt that made us hold on to these things.  We cleaned around them every week, we dropped stuff on top of them cause there wasn’t room anywhere else and we moved them from home to home to home just cause we thought we needed them.

Turns out, we didn’t and our space is becoming much cleaner and lighter for it.

What do you think?  Any thoughts on your own decluttering?  Have a mission of your own?

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